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This blog is aimed at giving help to teachers and students either in class preparation or in revision of certain tricky language points.
AS WELL AS
I wish I were is actually the preference of grammar experts because you’re talking about something that hasn’t actually occurred.
The subjunctive refers to words that describe doubtful situations—like wishes for things that aren’t real, that is wanted or desired but is not immediately possible.That’s why you’ll see I wish I were used in these examples:
I wish I were joking, but I really did crush the cake as it was coming out of the oven.
My mother was a great baker, and I wish I were more like her.
I wish I were older—I really want my own car!
I wish I was a little bit taller
Well, let’s face it: some of our favorite songs are chock full of grammatical errors. These ’90s favorites aren’t exactly wrong. They’re simply non-standard.
While grammarians will tell you to stick to I wish I were to follow the rules of the subjunctive, language has evolved, and the non-standard I wish I was has become increasingly popular. Our advice?
If you’re looking to write a hit song, it’s fine to use the less formal I wish I was. If you’re writing a paper for your English professor, on the other hand, stick with the grammarians, and use I wish I were. (Thesaurus)
Alternatively, you should use the phrase “if I was…” when referring to something that actually happened. For example,
“If I was late for curfew when I was a teenager, my parents grounded me.”
This variation is a lot less common, but it does come up.
A good trick to decide which you want to use is to determine if the thing you are talking about is something that actually happened or something that you are wishing or imagining might have happened. If it really happened, use “if I was,” but if not, go with “if I were.” (Reader's Digest)
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"I wish I were" is the most correct form, and, if you are writing a formal piece of writing, definitely go for it. No one can tell you that you are wrong.
RECOMMEND and SUGGEST
1) recommend + gerund
My doctor recommends eating fresh fruit every day.
I suggest taking a walk after lunch.
2) recommend + that + independent clause
We recommend that you buy your tickets early.
Toni suggests that we hit the road by 6 in the morning.
hen we use pronouns in the THAT clause, we always use the subject pronoun before the base verb. Usually, in American English, the base verb is used regardless of the subject of the that clause (even with he, she, or it): subjunctive.
She suggested that I go (
went) to that store.
I suggested that she go (
went)to that store. Not, I suggested that shegoes…
Jack recommended that he go (
went) to that store. Not, I suggested that hegoes…
The sofa? The decorator recommended that it go (
went) in front of the window. Not, …recommended that itgoes…
EXPLANATION 1: Spanish
EXPLANATION 2: English (with two videos)
P.S: it's not correct to use infinitive or SHOULD, no matter whether you see it in some webpages. They're typical error made by non native speakers (infinitive mistake) or even native people (SHOULD mistake)